08 March 2012

To The Rescue

My february book, "To the Rescue: The biography of Thomas S. Monson.

It was Saturday, February 25, and I was sitting on the couch with Trisha at my side. I express my frustration at the fact that I cannot get into this biography and that it may take me a year to finish. I was somewhere around page 200 of a 530 page book. She looks at me and says, "Yeah, sorry, there is no way you are going to finish that book by the end of February." That's all I needed, sounded like a challenge to me (Thanks, Babe!). Lucky for me, later that night, I reached chapter 19 which lead to 20 and 21. These three chapters are the best chapters in the book and the only reading that helped me stay interested and continue reading.

First of all, let me quickly tell you what I didn't like about the book. #1- Not organized. It did progress in a relatively chronological order but even that was all over the place. Ideas were scattered and not fluid. #2- Repetition. The author seemed to forget that she had already told some stories, and repeated them. I guess it's hard to remember what you've written if there is no organization to it. #3- Lots and lots of lists of names. Oh my goodness there was a lot of name dropping. Some, I agree, are very important people, but sometimes I got so bored reading name after name that I would skip to the next paragraph when the names were done being listed. Overall, I think that the information and stories could have easily been written in 250 pages.

Looking past the writing style and technique, the content of the book was awesome! I learned so many things about President Monson's life, how he was destined to become a prophet, how he was raised to be a great man, how he worked to be successfull and how he labored to support and uplift those in need. Let me share some of my favorites from the book.

On vacation in Vivian Park with his family, Tommy and his friend Danny cleared an area that was going to be used for a bonfire later that night. They lit the June grass on fire and assumed that it would just burn a small circle and then they would be able to extinquish it. To their amazement, the fire kept burning up the mountain side. All the family and townspeople came to the rescue to extinguish the fire. After the event he says he learned a valuable lesson that he has kept with him all his life: Look beyond the immediate to the possible conclusion of an activity. Simply stated, think before you act.

Giving a speech to a group of university students, he once said, "During the last half century, there has been in this country a gradual but continual retreat from standards of excellence in many phases of our life. We observe business without conscience; politics without principle; wealth without works...Refuse to compromise with expedience. Maintain the courage to defy the consensus. Choose the harder right instead of the easier wrong. By so doing, you will not detour, but rather will ever remain on the way to perfection."

As he was becoming a well established business man in the community and a righteous leader in the church, he came up with what he calls "Wisdom's Seven Watchwords" which he used to ensure that he remained successfull in all that he did. They are as follows: "Vision, Patience, Balance, Effort, Understanding, Courtesy and Love."

While he was serving as Bishop of the sixth-seventh ward, he had a pamphlet published titled, "A Guide to Happiness through Gospel Service." It outlined 5 principles to aid in teaching the gospel. 1- A personality filled with religious quality. 2- A genuine interest in people. 3-A knowledge of the gospel. 4- A wholesome attitude. 5- A utilization of good teaching methods.

Now come the best chapters in the book. Chapter 19- Weary Not, Chapter 20- Faith of the People, Chapter 21- The Wall Comes Down. So just when I was started to lose any faith in finishing the book by the end of the month, I got to the best cliff hanger of the book. At the end of Chapter 18, it says, "It would become a most significant chapter in his ministry- the rescue of the East German Saints." I know it's not really a cliff hanger, but it was an introduction to a story, and a story is what I needed to read.

President Monson was called as the apostle to supervise the European countries in 1968, about 7 years after the Berlin Wall had been put up. He was amoung one of the first civilians to be allowed to travel into East Germany, and he was definitely the first general athority to enter for decades. He frequently passed into the country through checkpoint charlie and he describes some of his thoughts as he drove through it for the first time. "As he and the Reeses drove toward Gorlitz, they passed through rural areas where farm machinery was horse-drawn, with not a tractor in sight...The autobahns were void of traffic, indicating the scarcity of automobiles in East Germany. Those who did have cars, wrapped themselves in blankets because their vehicles, for the most part, had no heaters." It is so crazy to imagine such a primeval and suppressed country and people! He continued saying his hotel was "the most archaic" he had ever seen with "a bed that resembled a box." President Monsons influence on the people of East Germany and the country would span many decades and would be an incredible blessing for the Saints that endured such hardship. On one of his visits, he delivered the following message to a gathering of Saints, "If you will remain true and faithful to the commandments of God, every blessing any member of the Church enjoys in any other country will be yours." It's hard to imagine that those words would come to fruition in a country imprisoned by a strong communist government. However, that promise was accomplished when the Berlin Wall finally came down and the church was allowed in to the country and a temple was constructed.

President Benson once said, "Only with a faith in the ultimate consummation of the Lord's purposes can people, with all their earthly possesions swept away, continue with spirits sweet and hearts free from bitterness... I promise you the richest of blessings of eternity inasmuch as you continue faithful." That seemed to be a motto for the Saints in East Germany, ever hoping and praying for the fulfillment of the Lord's promises. They were continually asked to abide by the laws of the land and be patient. "That kind of attention to the laws of the land and respect for the governement leaders and the rules they imposed would benefit the Church in years to come..." No doubt it would have been hard to live through the hardships of the time, but the Saints followed the councel of the Church and the laws of the land and in the end, they found freedom. There are countless experiences told in regards to his supervision of East Germany through the decades of change. President Monson was huge in influencing the government but more importantly in directly touching the lives of those members.

Another long term project in the life of Thomas Monson started during his experience in East Germany. The "clothing project" as it is called. His secretary has said that she estimates "he has given away up to ten suits a year for forty years, not to mention the other items of clothing he has shared." That is quite the humanitarian project in itsself for one man to accomplish. And how great for all of the recipients of those articles of clothing. Pretty cool, I think.

At the conclusion of his work in East Germany, he stated, "I have learned from my experience...that man's extremity is but God's opportunity. I am a living witness of how the hand of the Lord has been made manifest in watching over the members of the Church in what once were Communist-ruled countries." Isn't that true? Doesn't it always seem that we learn so much and gain so much strength and insight in times of trouble and hardship? It is an interesting concept, but one that I believe to be true. The hard moments in our life are the ones that really shape and define us!

If you are like me and don't really have the desire/ambition to read the entire biography, you should just pick it up and read chapters 19, 20 and 21. They are interesting, thought provoking and inspiring!!

My final thought of the book comes fittingly from the last chapter. "[President Monson] counsels those just starting out in their families and careers to seek 'the abundant life.' Wishing will not make it so, he says. 'The Lord expects our thinking. He expects our action. He expects our labors. He expects our testimonies. He expects our devotion.' He cautions: 'To measure the goodness of life by its delights and pleasures and safety is to apply a false standard. The abundant life does not consist of a glut of luxury. It does not make itself content with commercially produced pleasure, the nightclub idea of what is a good time, mistaking it for joy and happiness.' He measures the abundant life by the capacity 'to face trouble with courage, disappointment with cheerfulness, and triumph with humility.'" I would add that the abundant life is also measured by the amount of lives that have been changed as a result of our own. I am inspired by President Monson's ability to reach out to the one person in need. It is a quality becoming more and more rare in our complicated world but one that could change the world completely.

Now, for my next book...."The Power of Six"

07 March 2012

A Christmas Carol, revisited

I found my favorite quote from A Christmas Carol

"It is a fair, even-handed, noble adjustment of things, that while there is infection in disease and sorrow, there is nothing in the world so irresistibly contagious as laughter and good-humour. When Scrooge's nephew laughed in this way; holding his sides, rolling his head, and twisting his face into the most extravagant contortions; Scrooge's niece, by marriage, laughed as heartily as he. And their assembled friends being not a bit behindhand, roared out lustily.
"Ha, ha! Ha, ha, ha, ha!"

It reminds me of the many times that I have laughed myself silly, until my stomach hurt and all of the muscles in my mouth were sore.

24 February 2012

Baby girl is coming soon

It is only a matter of weeks and our little baby girl will be here and until this week we were not prepared at all. Nothing was ready. We had only a few clothes that were given to us by various people. However, this week has been nothing but getting ready. Trisha has been sewing every waking minute and my project was painting the nursery.

It started out months ago with some ideas: argyle, polka dots or plaid. Trisha really wanted argyle, so argyle it is. I bought all the paint and tape and started at it on Friday. I worked on it all day Friday, Saturday, a few hours Sunday, all day Wednesday and most of the day today. I am mostly done, just have a lot of touch-ups to do and pencil to wash off the walls. It has been quite the project and I think I will take a break from it for a few weeks. I knew it was going to be a huge undertaking, but I had no idea how much measuring and taping I would have to do. Oh, man.

Before pictures:







I didn't want to bore people with the million pictures I took of the process, so I did something different this time. I put together a little movie that compiles a hundred pictures in a few seconds. You can now enjoy the transformation in a short amount of time and still get the idea.



After pictures:







It turned out pretty sticking awesome if you ask me, but I may be biased. I'm glad it's mostly done. A few touch ups and it will look so cute for the little girl. We are going to add some more things, including her name (once we decide what it is) in vinyl letters across the yellow stripe on the wall. 

Trisha made all of the bedding, she recovered our bumpers, made the valence and is currently working on a throw blanket for the rocker and a pillow for it as well. She is still going to make a skirt for the crib, a cover for our changing pad and maybe some other things. Stay tuned to facebook, pinterest or her blog http://cheneybopper.blogspot.com/ for all of her projects.  

23 February 2012

January Readings

One of my New Years resolutions was to read at least one book per month this year. I started reading "A Christmas Carol" in December and wasn't able to finish it until January, so I will count that as my first book of the year. I read it because I was looking for a book to read, it was close to Christmas, and I needed something on the shorter side since the month was close to over and I wanted to start a different book at the begining of January (that didn't work out). Overall, I liked reading the book okay. It is a classic so I'm glad that I read it. However, the language of the old day was not my favorite part of the book. I had a few quotes that I really liked from the book, but I have lost them somewhere. There were some parts of the book that were enlightening but overall, if someone were to ask me whether it was worth it to read the book, I would most likely tell them that they should just watch the play or the movie. I have seen those many times, in many adaptations. I don't think that the book had anything at all in it that is not portrayed in the thousands of plays and movies out there. Go rent it at Redbox and save yourself hours of reading.

Book number two in January was one that I got for Christmas, "I Am Number Four," written by Pittacus Lore. I had heard of the book when the movie came out last year. I didn't know much about it but it looked intriguing. While I was still reading "A Christmas Carol" Trisha picked up the book and later that day told me that she could not "get into it" because it was too "sci-fi" for her. That worried me a little because I am not the biggest fan of over the top sci-fi. I gave it a chance anyway. I started reading it and loved it from the very beginging. It is in the sci-fi category but it is not over the top. I got hooked on the book and several days after starting it, I was done with it. I loved it! I liked it because although the main character is an alien from a different planet, that is not really the focus of the book. I like the characters a lot. I liked the character development and the interpersonal relationships between them. I also really enjoyed the suspense of the story line. The plot was well developed and it reminded me a little bit of reading the first book in the Harry Potter series. Lots of background information and very little action until the very end. Partial closure by the end, but enough of a cliff to pique interest in the next book in the series. After I finished reading it, Trisha picked it up again because I liked it so much. Two days later she was done with. She loved it too. We went right out and rented the movie from Redbox. I liked the movie as well, but it was interesting to watch it while the book was fresh on my mind. There were many small differences in the movie that dissappointed me, although I still enjoyed it. I think that one of the biggest differences between the movie and the book was the action. I know that hollywood has to sell movies, and action is a good way to do that. That is one of the reasons that I was first interested in the book. However, I feel like the less dramatic book was much better written than the movie script. It still had action, it was still intense at times, but it was fitting of the story. One of my favorite characters and story lines in the book was that of Sam and his father. He is especially funny in the book and I really hope that the next book can resolve his story. What I really hope is that he finds his dad, but we shall see what happens. I would recommend this book to anyone who wants a good, clean, exciting read. It is a really good book! "The Power of Six" is now on my list.

My goal was to read 1 book each month, alternating between a church book or non-fiction book and fiction books. I chose "To The Rescue: The Biography of Thomas S. Monson." I realize that I only have a few more days to get it done but it has been rough for me to get into and keep interest in. I will finish it, so stayed tuned for my thoughts.

18 January 2012

Ice Fishing

There is a lake, Matt Warner, about 40 minutes North of Vernal. I fished there last summer and the fishing was awesome. I have read many reviews and talked to some people that said the ice fishing there was also extraordinary. Usually the reservoir is only accessible by snow mobile because of all of the snow and snow drifts. This year however since we have had next to no snow at all, the lake is completely accessible with any vehicle. So, I convinced a friend of mine to head on up with me. We were both really excited for some great trout fishing. It did not disappoint.

We arrived at 8:00am, got all set up and put our lines in. It took about 20 minutes to get our first fish but after the first one, it was one after another for the next 2 hours.


Right when we got there

First catch of the day

The tent, so warm inside!

Justin

The holes. It is intriguing to look down the hole (when you have a tent) and see all the fish striking your bait.

Inside the fishes mouth...

 One of my female (and very full of eggs) friends

My 3 keepers

My biggest fish! >18 inches long

The ice

 The lake, it was really busy that day

At home just before this fish became a filet-o-fish

A delicious trout meal!!

In the end, we were at the lake for 5 hours and Justin caught 22 fish and I caught 8. Don't worry, lost about 8 fish right under the ice as I was reeling them in. They kept getting off the hook. I also lost 3 fish when they broke the line. So I may not have brought out as many fish, but it was still the best fishing trip that I have ever been on. I really hope it doesn't snow so that I can keep going up to Matt Warner. It is fantastic fishing!



Favorites

My favorite thing that Sam does lately.

1, 2, 3....

Actually he just says "two, tee..."

14 January 2012

It's a new year

It's a new year and that means new goals for me.

Last year I made a much needed resolution to quite caffeine.  I knew that it was gonna be rough, but I also knew that the headaches and constant desire for caffeinated beverages was just as rough. So I made the resolution and I started to drink more water and caffeine-free drinks. Lucky for me I didn't have any withdrawal headaches at the begining, they didn't set in for a few weeks but by then I was committed. Most of the year went well, but there were times when I just really wanted to drink a Dew. It was one of the hardest things that I have ever done. I am proud to say that I only cheated 3 times in the whole year. I consider that an achievement of epic proportions. Now I am faced with a new dilema. I had my first Mountain Dew on New Years Eve and I have had a few drinks since. They taste good and I like drinking them but the cravings for them have already come back full force. So it makes me think that I just need to can them for the rest of my life. But I really want to drink them. What to do? I have no idea. I'll figure it out eventually.


I have set some new goals for 2012!

#1- I am going to stop picking/biting/chewing my fingernails and surrounding tissue. This is already proving to be very difficult, but it needs to be done. My dad has been trying to get me to quite for as long as I can remember. When I told Trisha, she said, "Oh, that is gonna be hard for you!" Indeed it will, but it is now public information so if you see me touching my fingernails, smack me upside the head, please.

#2- I want to read 1 book every month. I better hurry and finish the book that I started in December so that I can move onto "I am Number Four" for January. Any other reading suggestions will be greatly appreciated.



WELCOME 2012!!!